It can be really lonely going through something like this by yourself. Its been a while since my operation now, but I encourage anyone with any questions to contact me, at this email address. But if it turns out to be something … you will definitely regret not going.ģ – The experience has given me the motivation to start to seriously learn the language of the country which I live.Ĥ and did I mention my child is fine! I am fine too! The doctor is probably not going to care if you come to the hospital and it turns out to be nothing. Your regular “appendix pain” area) to just seek medical help. I think its important that if you do have similar pains in your stomach which do not fit the braxton hicks or round ligament pain description (NOT necessarily in Luckily my husband was the one who dragged me to the hospital, because If I had been home alone that night, I probably would not have gone. I worried at the time I was being too cautious,īut now I realize that doctors are doctors because they study hard, they learn a lot, and they are GOOD at what they do. VERY healthy! No words can describe how wonderful this feels.Ģ – I have such renewed faith in the medical system of the country where I live (Japan, FYI.) Its amazing to go to a hospital, during pregnancy, and be treated seriously and not like I am some over-anxious other-to-be suffering from round ligament pain or braxton hicks. Some positives which have come from my experience –ġ – My child is healthy. But in the grand scheme of things … who cares really?
Also due to the scar it is highly unlikely I will ever have a flat tummy. My doctor puts this down to the muscles re-bonding.
I remember my pregnancy being at the “high risk of death or brain damage” scale, and thats what sticks in myĢ – I still have minor cramping and discomfort around the scar a few years later. One of the things I remember from my 1 week ICU stay is the doctor (who luckily spoke English) coming to me, and showing me a chart about the risks of pre-term delivery for my child depending on the weeks.
You will almost definitely find that you feel fantastic, so happy and grateful to be alive and still have your baby after the operation, but someday, one day, its probable that these strains will come back to haunt you. The emotional costs will probably come out later, rather than sooner. I would urge anyone who goes through this operation during pregnancy to take whatever support is offered to you, and seek more, even if you feel fine. I think it comes from the own fear I felt about my own, and my unborn childs, life. I remember seeing my daughters hands in the sack when they had my stomach pulled open (She was almost definitely drawn to the light), and I freaked out. I felt so helpless, and obviously the operation was very, very bloody and messy, and it freaks me out. The surgical stuff scared me a lot, I didn’t understand, and I was in a country where my Its a huge operation, in terms of both medical terms and also emotional terms, and as I mentioned in my original post I was awake at the time, and still to this day (almost 3 years later) I have nightmares about what happened (although I must stress that the hospital staff were absolutely fantastic). At the time of this appendix operation, I was offered counselling, and I refused, and now I regret it. Only one big problem, my own mental state. Some negatives which have come from my experience –ġ.
I have enclosed some photos of how my scar is looking now, and also a little update on me. I had my appendix removed when I was fairly far on in pregnancy, and it was a fairly traumatic experience.